Why do men suffer during sex?
Even though moaning is considered a purely feminine thing, men need to express their sexual pleasure through sounds but do women like it? If they do, how well do they like it and how much do women really like being moaned about by men?
We asked five women what sounds they like men to make during sex
Other women we’ve talked to agree that men’s moans during sex add an extra edge to the pleasure they have while making love.
But how exactly should men suffer? As expected, the women had different ideas.
Here’s how women want you to moan during sex:
1. “It shouldn’t sound like a bitch”
“I like it when my man makes noises, but it can’t be a bitch noise. He can’t sound like me. To be honest, he talks dirty to me. I like that.” — Dorothy
2. “I’d rather talk dirty to him”
“It shouldn’t be a soprano contest, I’d rather have him grunt or talk dirty, but I can’t imagine weird silent sex. How do I know he’s enjoying himself?“– dry
3. “Curse words and other obscenities”
“I know he’s enjoying himself, but I want less oohs and aahs and more curse words and other profanities like how he loves my body and what he’s doing to me in that moment.” — Felicia
4. “He sounds weird if he makes a lot of noises.”
“I don’t mind moaning, but it should be minimal, I want him to talk to me. It’s weird if he’s making a lot of noises, it’s too distracting.” — Diane.
5. “The Oohs and Aahs Turn Me On”
“I love it when my man makes lots of soft moans. Lots of oohs and aahs for me. It turns me on so much.” — Tiana
What happens if you don’t feel pain during sex?
Studies have shown that suppressing moans prevents a person from reaching climax, so it’s important to be as expressive as possible – one must ask if the noise made without a measure of self-consciousness can be controlled?
