How to get your crush without shooting you

For women, however, there is often reluctance when the first to act on such attraction.

Often times, when young men see guys they really have a crush on, they don’t shoot their shot, no matter how intense the attraction.

Although it is always advised that women should shoot their shots and pursue the men they like, we understand that there are women who are shy, uncomfortable, fearless or just traditional and don’t do this.

For women who fall into this category, you have a chance to get a guy without directly asking.

Here is the simple answer Positioning. Instead of shooting your shot straight and landing on him, be a little subtle about it. Make friends and engage him in conversations – both fun and serious.

“Get him talking about something he likes. When a guy talks about something he really likes, he perks up and subconsciously associates those feel-good vibes with you. Writes Kelly Thor Cosmopolitan’s

When the communication is continuous and regular, you can ask their secrets and exchange information about something that makes you both happy.

Every once in a while there is something about interacting with someone that tugs at their heartstrings and fosters some deep connection.

If you somehow build communication until you guys do it every time, and subtly drop date hints and sly romantic insinuations here and there, he’ll ask you out in no time.

It may be as successful as hearing him clearly, or it may be my own. However, the secret here is to trick your crush into following you and make him think that he started the relationship, but this was your plan.

In the end, get your man without asking. They’ll think they’re heard, but you’ll know they’re only caught up in your well-executed Operation-Snatch-the-Bay plan.

As cunning as a pickpocket and as effective as black magic.