Not only does this make your partner feel desired, but it also allows for variety and spontaneity in the way you meet each other’s sexual needs.
So while it is important to understand why you should initiate sex, it is also important to know how to do it and do it in a way that is truly pleasurable and always hits the mark.
7 ways to initiate sex and drive your man crazy
According to men [off Reddit] For those on the receiving end of these seductive moves, here are some great ways to initiate sex:
1. Start when he least expects it
I’ve always been a fan of catching myself when I least expect it. Just come into the room and start undressing. [/u/maybeluke]
2. Go for it boldly
Earlier, my wife and I were just hanging out, kissing and talking about stuff, when she started rubbing my dick through my pants and suggested we go to the guest room. I couldn’t be more thrilled.
While it’s completely unrequited by me, it’s hot as hell. [/u/VincentGrayson]
3. Be natural, babe!
When she randomly jumps on me or walks on me. I love it when she takes control. [/u/Goatsonice]
4. Goat hand stitch
If she wants to start it is very simple. Rub on me, put your hands on my chest, kiss my neck, run your fingers through my hair. Do things that make me feel like you can’t keep your hands off me, and don’t hesitate to pull off (yours and mine) clothes while you do it. [/u/TheDarkHorse83]
5. Short skirts, long nights
If she wears a short skirt and bends in front of me or sits on top of me. [/u/Raenryong]
6. Seduction always wins
When she seduced me. I like to dominate in the bedroom, so I love it when she begs and/or tells me how much she wants me, how much she loves my d**k, how to give me head, etc. [/u/Anotherside714]
7. That dirty talk
If she gropes/kisses, whispers dirty things in my ear and/or wraps around me. Or wake me up with it, you know.. maybe there are more ways… [/u/Ingetfunkarfan]